Tuesday, April 13, 2010

Something Old, Something New

DRUMROLL PLEASE!
David & I are embarrassingly giddy over this but we are proud to announce: a new site, a new blog - a new D. Park Photography.

The New Site

The New Blog

Thank you, blogspot, for all the good times we've shared.

Tuesday, April 6, 2010

Sneak Peek | Zack & Fatema


Sneak peek of a breathtaking engagement shoot at the Ritz Carlton Laguna Niguel.

Sneak Peek | The Smiths

A preview of a fun-loving family, canines and all!

Monday, April 5, 2010

April 5th | Bit of Inspiration



Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you have imagined.
- Henry David Thoreau

Thursday, April 1, 2010

Veronica & Daniel | Introducing Mr. + Mrs.

We were blessed with celebrating the wedding of Veronica and Daniel with Jaimee Hubert from Capturing Moments photography!

Location: Yorba Linda, CA



















How adorable is this couple.









Reception details!













A tearful mother/son dance



With a surprise visit from Taylor Lautner!



Ok, I'm sorry it's not him. But didn't it make you do a double take? I did.

Congratulations, Veronica & Daniel!!





A video of their wedding by Garner Films!



Wednesday, March 31, 2010

Wedding Lessons Learned | Type A Bride

We LOVED our wedding and it was a total dream come true but if there were a few things we learned and can hopefully help someone with when they plan theirs, it’d be the following:

1. Line Item Contract: Get it all in writing: We had a hard time with surprise fees from our venue after we’d already put in our non-refundable deposits. Specific items we had thought were already included from prior discussions were surprisingly not. Don’t trust verbal assent. It must all be written. We’ve had to use a few e-mails with Q&A back and forth as proof to remove some costs we had already upon being included beforehand. IF you’re going to ask after the contract is written, ask in an e-mail so it’s written rather than over the phone or in person.

2. Plan Out Greeting All Your Guests: We casually put in our schedule for the wedding reception a “dancing time and greeting guests”. However, we didn’t really plan out enough time to greet all our guests or specifically focus on just doing that. As a result, we didn’t get to say hi to probably 30% of our guests, which is something we truly regret.

3. Thank You Speech: Write down whom you’ll thank during the thank you speech. We thought we’d remember it all right then but, nope, we realized sadly later that we didn’t. But we were able to make it up in our thank you cards.

4. Schedule in More Dancing Time with Your Spouse: Greeting guests, entertaining, and finding spare time to finish your food can surprisingly take up a lot of the night. Make sure you set aside time to really just enjoy the reception and dance with your spouse.

Most Importantly: Whatever happens, enjoy. The unexpected happens. Mistakes occur. But you are married to the love of your life! You have the rest of your lives to live, love, and learn together!

Harmoniously Yours,
Drexelle
The Type A Bride

Monday, March 29, 2010

March 29th | Bit of Inspiration



The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.
- Eleanor Roosevelt

Sunday, March 28, 2010

Sneak Peek | Veronica & Daniel


A wedding shot with Jaimee Hubert from Capturing Moments!

Friday, March 12, 2010

Cupcake Deliciousness from La Provence | So Scrumptious

My food pyramid includes a large but necessary portion of chocolate. I was also born into a
family with other chocoholics (yes, that is a word!..or at least it was when I googled it).

Now cupcakes fall under that part of my food pyramid. Normally, when people recommend good cupcakes or any kind of cakes for that matter, they give me these fluffy and light desserts. But fluffy and light to me equates with emptiness, a lack of something.

If you're ever going to recommend or give me any type of cake (these gifts are welcome btw! haha), it must be...rich and thick and layered.

One day my cousin sees me raving about Sprinkles cupcakes and she declares boldly, "BAH, wait 'til you try these!"



La Provence Patisserie & Cafe

La Provence's tagline: The best bakery in Beverly Hills

When my cousin handed me these velvety chocolate cupcakes with ganache frosting, I nearly fainted from the sheer delight and DELICIOUSNESS.

Try them. Let me know what you think. Oh and let me know if there's any other types of sweets I can add to get my daily dose of chocolate!

Thursday, March 4, 2010

How to Have the Cheapest OC Wedding Ever | Type A Bride

The Wall Street Journal posted a scary but realistic article of how much a wedding really can cost you in the long run.

A Lavish Wedding Costs More Than You Think

I personally still feel that, despite the pain of the money spent on our wedding, I could never want to take it back. It was really just an amazing way to celebrate being married to the love of my life. But for those of you who are curious...what is the LEAST amount of money you need to get married?

Let's use the OC as the example here.

Steps to Take for the Cheapest OC Wedding

1. Go online to apply for your marriage license and set an appointment to pick it up (which should save you about 10 minutes at least): https://cr.ocgov.com/marriageappointment/.

2. Before your appointment, make sure both you and the groom attend. Bring your government issued Photo IDs. as well as either cash, check, or money order (if you use credit card, there is a $2.50 charge).

3. During your appointment, go to your designated courthouse, which for us was the Old Orange County Courthouse in Santa Ana (the well-preserved red building that stands out from all the rest in the land of Civic Center buildings, which took us an hour to find because it had NO sign or number to distinguish it from the rest).

4. Raise your right hand and swear you didn’t lie on the application. Show them your IDs. Hand them your payment.

5. Get an ordained minister you know or a friend who is willing to become ordained to marry you for free.

6. TADA! You’re married!

How Much Would You Have Spent?
$61.50 and about 45 minutes (if you find the place in a timely manner)

If you didn’t want to find an ordained minister for free, you can have the marriage ceremony at the courthouse. It’ll only cost you another $28. A lifetime commitment for $89.50 and in under an hour!

Efficiently Yours,
Drexelle
The Type A Bride

Wednesday, March 3, 2010

Oh Where Oh Where Can My Wedding Be? | Type A Bride

How can you find your perfect wedding venue? Let’s sit & talk.

…with your fiancĂ©.

…and paper and a pencil…or an iPhone.

Step 1
There are tons of venues out there. Needle in a haystack tons of venues. Maybe not what you want to hear. First, let's try to shrink that to just a handful of choices and save some time. Before you go looking, sit down and decide on the following:
• What would be your ideal wedding reception? How does it look (indoor/outdoor, natural, modern, edgy, etc.)? How do you want the guests to feel at that reception?
• What's your wedding theme and style?
• Where do you want to get married? Give yourself options but rank their priority.
• How many guests are you expecting? Most venues have a capacity minimum or maximum. Don’t squish your guests into something small and don’t have 20 people in a large ballroom, unless you’ve got the dramatic lighting that can pull that kind of thing off.
• List the venue must-haves: Examples can be easy wheelchair access, guidelines on the types of food or drinks they allow, etc.
• Estimated wedding date/time (they’ll ask you and it’ll determine your price)
• What's your budget?

Step 2
Decide traditional or offbeat.

If You Want Traditional:
These websites will have plenty of information on the traditional ones you'd like to see.
• The Knot
• Here Comes the Guide

If You Want Offbeat:
Personalize your wedding venue to your different kind of love story! You can also do this with a traditional venue as we'll talk about later but this can sometimes be the key to making a wedding really your style.
• What kind of venue would have personal and real meaning for you and your fiance?
• Where was the first place you met or dated?
• Do you have a favorite hobby together?
• What are your passions? Do you love amusement parks, movie theaters, horse racing, or museums?
• Where would your guests have fun and know that this place was totally meant for the two of you?

Potential Benefits of Offbeat Venues:
• Less competition for the wedding date
• Tendency for being open to negotiation
• Guests have never seen it before for a wedding (no comparisons)
• Express your real personality
• Flexible timing/dates
• Available resources right at the venue (for example, with our wedding at the Grove of Anaheim, we had the spotlights, crew, and audio/visual equipment that celebrities used)

Potential Problems with Offbeat Venues:
• The crew is less experienced in wedding planning/support
• May require you to bring everything from the outside in: catering, chairs, tables, sound, caterer, etc.
• Family resistance for those that prefer traditional - Be prepared.

Step 3
Brainstorm. See what you both love. Ask around. Drive around! That’s how we found our dream wedding venue:

Leave a comment and let us know what works/worked for you!

Effortlessly yours,
Drexelle
The Type A Bride

Monday, March 1, 2010

Wedding Sites | The Good Ones

Brides & Grooms - a list of wedding sites for you, the good ones.

These wedding blogs and sites are full of great ideas and resources, easy to read, and won't waste your time as you plan your wedding.

  • 100 Layer Cake - Crafting your wedding, layer by layer (real weddings, DIY, style, pretty paper)
  • Green Wedding Shoes - Southern CA wedding inspiration for the modern bride
  • I Will Teach You to be Rich - Community focused on personal finances and entrepreneurship for college students, recent college grads, and everyone else. Featured on Wall Street Journal, NY Times, NPR, ABC News, and CNBC. Odd title, I know. But it's a great site on effective money management and there's nothing like effective money management when you plan your wedding and the rest of your lives together.
  • Junebug Weddings - Wedding blog ideas, products and professionals for your Seattle, LA or OC weddings
  • The Knot - Internet's most-trafficed one-stop wedding planning solution
  • Offbeat Bride - Altar your thinking. No two weddings need to look the same because no two couples are alike
  • Serendipity - Inspirations for the Asian Bride
  • Style Me Pretty - Style savvy wedding resource devoted to the modern bride
  • Utterly Engaged - The 1st online wedding magazine. Inspiring budget savvy brides with style.
  • The Wedding Chicks - Sharing everything new, classic, funky, hip and just plain fun for weddings
  • Wedding Bee - Wedding blog updated daily by 20+ real brides across the US and Canada with a core focus on real brides' wedding planning journeys from engagement to "I Do" and beyond
  • Wedding Style - Grace Ormonde's Wedding Style Magazine is a sophisticated and elegant wedding media for high end brides. The magazine assists prospective brides with choosing wedding services and offer informative, practical editorial content on topics ranging from wedding planning to home decorating and women's health issues.
Leave a comment and let me know what you think of these sites or if you've seen anything else we should follow!

Preparedly Yours,
Drexelle
The Type A Bride

Thursday, February 25, 2010

Post Wedding Tips | Type A Bride

10 Wedding Tips

Boo to stress and wasted energy. 10 tips to save you from both for your wedding:

1. Have at Least 1 Wedding Day Coordinator: If you’re not going to hire one, ask for a Type A friend to coordinate for you. This is a MUST have in order to actually enjoy and just relax on your special day. A professional though will know how to handle many a complex situation that arises on such a big day.

2. Make Your Wedding Entertaining!: A wedding isn’t all about just how beautiful it is but also on how it can be enjoyable for your guests. This really helps make the wedding not only memorable for you but for them as well! A book we highly recommend is The Best Wedding Reception Ever by Peter Merry.

3. Delegate: It’s amazing how much relief this brings by the time of the wedding! It gets crazy as you get closer and other people’s opinions get louder.

4. Be flexible: People will be early. People will be late. Some will get sick, stuck at work or school, and won’t show up. The weather will not always be your friend. Be flexible and enjoy.

5. Take the Week of Your Wedding Off: I hadn’t planned to originally do this for my wedding but this SERIOUSLY helped! You’re moving and packing. Family is flying into town. Last minute things like bad weather conditions can come up and it’ll help you relax in getting it done. IN FACT: Make sure to take plenty of time off during your whole engagement to just enjoy being with your fiancĂ©. It really matters. All work and no play = no fun and probably not a good way to start your marriage.

6. Rent Don’t Buy: This I can tell is totally a matter of preference but I recommend renting. It’s cheaper and you don’t have to deal with the storage and cleaning of anything. Plus, will you realistically ever use any of it again? Wouldn’t you rather spend that money elsewhere?

7. For Non-Priority Elements, Find Up & Coming Vendors: Try to rank which elements of your wedding are most important to you and prioritize. For parts that aren’t at the top, go for the up and coming vendors. These vendors are eager to prove themselves and you can usually negotiate a better deal.

8. Verify RSVPs Closer to the Event: By sending out e-mails closer to the wedding, we received cancellations and surprise invites from 10% of the guests. I don’t know if we would’ve been notified of them if we hadn’t asked. However, this helped us fill in seats or rearrange them accordingly.

9. Prepare for No-Shows: Research shows that the average wedding has 5-10% of people who say yes in their RSVP still not show up. My personal experience from weddings I’ve attended are 10-20%. At our wedding, about 6% did not show up. This may not sound like a lot but it is a lot of money when you multiply the headcount with the prepaid cost you already gave to the caterer/venue. What solutions can there be? Perhaps, overinvite. Have a back-up list of guests. Don’t have seating arrangements so people can easily be added in without moving others around.

10. Register at Bed, Bath & Beyond: This tip works for events other than weddings too: i.e. baby showers, graduations, house warming, etc. Why might you ask?
• CASH Exchange: Return gifts AND gift cards for cash!

• Discounts: Get 10% off any items not purchased on the registry. Granted: their stuff on its own is expensive.
• Easy for Guests: $100+ items have free shipping. This store has the easiest registry to use in navigating in-store that I’ve experienced. 20% off coupons are found everywhere to help your guests save money. Free gift-wrapping is always offered.

• Registry Incentives: PRO: Get free stuff for registering and for completed items. It does make your registry look absurd as you can register for 12 sets of forks, 3 sets of pans, 8 sets of glassware. BUT you get lots of neat free stuff just by registering. By mere registering and a few completions, we’re got some these free items: Pfaltzgraff set of 4 Circumference shooters, All-Clad Stainless Measuring Cups, Yamazaki Salad Serving Spoon, Cuisinat 10” Heart-Shaped Pie Baker, Cuisinart $25 off coupon, Cuisinart CD & Recipe Set, Calphalon Stir Fry Wok Set, Santoku Cutlery Knife, J.A. Henckels 4” TWIN Grip Parer, Yamazaki Tablespoon, Analon Advanced 5” Santoku Knife and Royal Doulton “Precious” Tea Light. CON: The only pain is filling out these forms and getting them all from Bed, Bath & Beyond. Blah. It’ll take a few hours to go through all of them.

Note: These tips are only for your wedding. Please please please make sure you spend plenty of time building your marriage during your engagement period as well. We’ll discuss that later. _________________________________________

For the brides and grooms who have already crossed that finish line and gotten married, what do you recommend to reduce the headaches in planning a wedding?

Composedly Yours,
Drexelle
The Type A Bride




Friday, February 19, 2010

Interview with East West Event Productions | Type A Bride



Shana is a talented up and coming event planner of East West Event Productions. With her currently being voted the 3rd best wedding planner by MyFOX Los Angeles Hot List, I got 30 minutes from her to get some hot tips to help plan your wedding.

You started this event planning company, East West Event Productions. What do you do and how’d you get that name?
Since just November 2008, we have been a full service event planning company that supports corporate and non-profit event, social parties, and weddings!

Throughout my life, I’ve had a pattern of moving from east to west. I was born and raised in Taiwan. I moved to the US and lived in Ohio when I was 7. I lived in the Midwest until after college, and moved to CA six years ago. These 2 occurences of moving from East to the West really made me who I am and I wanted to incorporate that into my business as well.




What makes you different from other wedding planners out there?
My motto is that I provide quality event planning services at an affordable price. Not all event planners are as affordable as I am because I’m not out there just to make money. My desire is to help the couple. I understand how hard it is to fund the wedding. The average wedding now is $30,000 so I don’t want to add more stress by charging a ridiculous amount to offer my service. I tell my couples that if there is a budget that they need to work with, I am flexible to meet it.

What is included in the “full service” event planning for a bride?
For weddings, I have 3 packages:

1. Efficiency Package (Basic Day of Coordination): I provide 3 in-person planning meetings that start about 3 months prior to the wedding date. These couples have most of their vendors locked down so I could jump in during that process, understand who their vendors are, and what has already been planned. I guide them through the next 1-3 months. A majority of my time would be spent creating the wedding day timeline and running the show on the wedding day. I am available for up to 12 hours on the wedding day to coordinate.

2. Essentials Package: I include 6 in-person planning meetings that start 3-6 months before the wedding day. I would help in more of the planning process in terms of giving vendor recommendations and going with the couples to their appointments.

3. Everything Package: This is for the couple who just does not have the time or desire to do any planning for the wedding. In that case, I would manage EVERYTHING from the RSVPs to the theme so, in the end, I’d be their personal assistant for anything related to their wedding.

With all 3 packages, I’m available for UNLIMITED phone calls and e-mails so that the couple can always get a hold of me.




How do you help a bride find her style/look for the wedding?
I never dictate a style. But if a couple is clueless on where to begin, we check out certain websites:
· Here Comes the Guide: Great resource to find venues
· Wedding Bee: This site is awesome for DIY projects. It’s also one of my favorites because it is a community of real brides from all over the nation who share their best practices and ideas. It’s not filled with glamorous celebrity weddings to which people can’t really relate. They’re real life couples.
· Utterly Engaged: Great e-magazine
· Serendipity: This is a new bridal magazine targeting specifically Asian brides. I am going to be writing in the Summer 2010 issues. Since Asians don’t really have a lot of wedding resources targeting us, it’s a new media that provides Asian make-up tips, traditions, cultures, etc.

From your experience, what are typical issues Asian brides have in their weddings?
There are many multi-cultural weddings nowadays, like yours and David’s. I really love doing them. I think often times couples want to do something cultural but they don’t know what can be done and want guidance. Also, another challenge they usually face is that Asian families REALLY like to be included in the decision-making. But you can’t satisfy everyone so sometimes I need to talk to the families to do what will make the couple happy for the wedding.




Planning a wedding is stressful. What advice do you give brides who stress out about every detail?
It's important to have a wedding planner, not because I’m biased, but I honestly think it’s very helpful for the bride to have an extra set of eyes, ears, and hands. A wedding planner is really the best advocate they will have.

Could they just have a friend be their wedding planner?
An event planner, an experienced one, would have connections and know the best vendors out there. For example, photographers will post only their best work online. A wedding planner would have already seen what they really do and would be able to tell you.

Also, a professional would have the experience to figure out emergency situations, whereas a friend might not. You won’t need to worry about having your friend come up to you during your wedding and ask you what to do with the vendors. I would be the liaison.




How accurate is the job as it was depicted in The Wedding Planner? Do you really have a toolkit of emergency items?
I actually have a plastic box where I carry all the emergency items: scissors, tape, paper towels, antibacterial, trash bags to name a few, on top of my binder, cell phone, and pens. Recently for Christmas, my boyfriend gave me a fanny pack so I will use that!

What would you recommend on how to cut the cost of their wedding without making it ugly?
Focus on 3 top priorities. Spend more time and money on those than the others.
· Photography vs. Videography: I think photography is a higher priority than videography. Couples may not need both so they can just cut one out.
· DIY (do it yourself): There are favors and decorations that you can very easily do just DIY. There are lots of images and directions on how to do that online.
· DJ vs. iPod: If a DJ is not important to you, just make a playlist on your iPod.

What do you see as the biggest factors on what makes a great wedding?

· Venue
· Food:
Not every couple thinks the food is important but, trust me, the guests do.
· Photographer: You’re not going to remember every memory of your wedding.




What makes a wedding entertaining?
Guests don’t usually like cookie cutter weddings. They like ones with personal touches that showcase the couple’s personalities. In one wedding I did, the couple was really into movies. They had a movie themed wedding just like you two did (click to see our movie themed wedding posters). The couple had movie posters in the receptions & the place cards were movie tickets. They REALLY incorporated their passion and interest into the wedding.

How much work would a typical wedding actually take you? It’s more than just on the day of the wedding, isn’t it?
Definitely! It’s a common misconception that I just show up on the day of the wedding. Each of the in-person planning meetings take 2-3 hours at a time. I also do a site visit to make sure I know the ceremony/reception site before the day of the wedding. Developing a timeline is the biggest part! I spend 5-10 hours to make my timeline very detailed so that we don’t miss a step. Of course, there’s also the 12 hours of support on the day of the wedding. For the most basic package, I do at least 30 hours of work!




What are the typical mistakes brides/grooms make on their wedding timeline?
They do not allot enough time for:
· Pictures
· Traveling from one site to another
· Table Greetings:
Asian weddings love doing table greetings but almost never allow enough time for it!

What precautions would you give a bride/groom before picking a wedding planner?
· Meet the planner in person: It’s very important that the planner and couple be comfortable in talking with each other.
· Make sure the planner is responsive:
You shouldn't need to wait more than 24 hours.
· Use word of mouth: You’ll get the best providers when you ask people who’ve gotten married and who have seen these planners at work.
· Don’t use Craigslist: These planners usually offer really low prices but have no experience. Can you really sacrifice the quality for this kind of service? Planners can make or break your day.

Congratulations on your recent award! Can you tell our readers about it?
So far I’ve been voted 3rd out of 38 organizations that were nominated under the Wedding Planner category for the myfoxla’s HOTLIST. I’m against really tough competition! I’m always amazed at how couples have heard of me. There are a lot of different vendors or past couples referring them to me. I feel very fortunate.
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To hear more about what Shana is up to, check her out at http://www.eastwesteventproductions.com/.



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Meticulously Yours,



Drexelle
The Type A Bride

Thursday, February 18, 2010

The Love Lab | Type A Bride

In our premarital counseling classes and even in business school, we were introduced to a very interesting study called the Love Lab. Through the study, the researchers were able to predict up to a 90% accuracy as to whether a couple would get divorced. Below is a summary of the findings:

Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work
By John M. Gottman, Ph. D., and Nan Silver

The First Sign: Harsh Startup
You can predict up to a 96% accuracy as to whether a marital discussion will resolve a conflict after the first three minutes of the discussion. A harsh startup is when a discussion starts with criticism and/or sarcasm.

The Second Sign: The Four Horsemen
There are four types of negative interactions during a discussion:

• Horseman 1: Criticism – A complaint will focus on a specific behavior but a criticism will include blame and general character assassination.

• Horseman 2: Contempt – Shown in sarcasm, cynicism, name-calling, eye-rolling, hostile humor, etc.

• Horseman 3: Defensiveness – This is really a way of blaming your partner.

• Horseman 4: Stonewalling – This usually arrives later in marriage. This happens after the first three horsemen become overwhelming enough where stonewalling becomes an out.

The Third Sign: Flooding
After a spouse’s negativity becomes so overwhelming and sudden, the other becomes shell-shocked, developing stonewalling.

The Fourth Sign: Body Language
Physical reactions occur during tense discussions: heart speeds up, hormonal changes, blood pressure mounts, sweating, etc., making it almost impossible to have a productive, problem-solving discussion.

The Fifth Sign: Failed Repair Attempts
Couples make an effort for repair attempts to decrease tension during a touchy discussion.
The presence of the four horsemen alone predicts divorce with only an 82% accuracy. But when you add the failure of repair attempts, the accuracy rate reaches into the 90s. But, note, 84% of newlyweds who struggled highly with the four horsemen but could repair effectively had stable, happy marriages 6 years later.

The Sixth Sign: Bad Memories
Couples tend to rewrite their history with their spouse when they have developed a deeply negative view of their spouse. History gets rewritten for the worse.

When the End is Near
There are four final stages that signal the death knell of a relationship:

(1) You see your marital problems as severe.

(2) Talking things over seems useless.

(3) You start leading parallel lives.

(4) Loneliness sets in.

When this occurs, one or both partners may have an affair. This is usually a symptom of a dying marriage, not the cause. The end can be predicted much earlier to the affair.

But It’s Not Too Late!!
Despite all these findings, the Love Lab doctors share that even marriages that hit rock bottom can still be revived! It’s not too late. They found that the secret for making a marriage work is not in researching what destroys it but in what really makes it work. The conclusion of the study:

“The key to reviving or divorce-proofing a relationship is not in how you handle disagreements but in how you are with each other when you’re not fighting…Strengthen the friendship is the heart of any marriage.”


Composedly Yours,
Drexelle
The Type A Bride


Wednesday, February 17, 2010

Happily Engaged | Starring Heather & Jeremy



THE STARS: Heather & Jeremy

THE SET: Irvine Park @ Orange, CA

When you spend an afternoon photographing an engaged couple, you learn so much about the type of couple they are. Heather & Jeremy are the intense romantics who so adorably get lost in each other's eyes.









It had poured pretty hard with rain the few days before the photoshoot. They were so amazing and had an awesome attitude as we all trudged along in the muddy grass. But the weather was gorgeous.



I loved Heather's stylin' stockings!



We took the shot just in time for the bird to fly by.



They totally had us cracking up!





Oh my goodness, the sunset...









We cannot wait to photograph their wedding!